"And the LORD God said, [It is] not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him." (Genesis 2:18)
Read this Verse very carefully. God created EVE as the helpmate for Adam, not vice versa. "For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man." (1 Corinthians 11:8-9) Men are natural leaders and pursuers. Something we often forget is that we won't have to chase after "the one." If we place our love story in God's Hands, He will make it happen. Now don't get me wrong, it is completely okay to text a guy first, or make the first move to make it easier on the guy. But ultimately, the guy should be the one doing the main pursuing. God won't send you someone who you have to beg attention or affection from. The Bible tells us that the husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the Church. If he isn't actively pursuing you, he is more than likely not the one. Wait for the type of guy that will lead the relationship like he should. Don't settle for mediocre out of fear of loneliness. You deserve someone who will actively pursue you, don't convince yourself otherwise. While the man's job is to initiate the relationship, us ladies job is to respond. Something I've noticed in this generation, is us girls love being extremely vague when it comes to getting involved with a guy. Maybe we don't mean to drag a guy along, or be subtly flirty without the intentions of dating or marriage in mind, but it is very important to be honest and straightforward. As hard as that may be sometimes, it'll prevent a lot of stress on both ends and it will help both of you to heal and move forward to what God has in store for you. "Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD." (Psalm 27:14) This was a collab with my good friend, Graci. Her instagram will be linked below. Don't forget to checkout what she has to say on this topic (the link to her blog is in her bio!) Blessings!! <3
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